Another of my Vague Opinions....

A Person's Worth?

Well,  in  my opinion about in a relationship, it's not just okay to revel in the fact that the other person loves you and you just enjoy its benefits or fruits and seem at ease. Sometimes you love the other person because he/she loves you or you just love and don't know why or you don't wanna know for even that curiosity seem to scare you. Although the answers to this questions don't prove useful in the beginning but they can hold life or death policies at difficult times.

However this attitude seems is sheer shallowness, for you to sit on a belief that's on shifting sand or rather more on a selfish grounds- Businesslike.Either both benefit from the relationship or at the least you benefit and therefore you just sit back at ease and fantasize that the other person likes you. It's pure innocence or you being being numbed by a feeling that's so good.

If you ask me, I would say in relationships, you just don't sit back and enjoy but divulge deep in to the other person’s heart cautiously, to know what's inside even when it hurts you in the process for it is an investment in the long run rather than to run and sit back is sheer shallowness!One of the noblest attire that you can give to a relationship is to have an non-meddlesome interest on what the other person thinks about him/herself, for that self relation directly affects the relationship with you.

       

In the beginning, a relationship always is a bliss; thinking about the other,blushing when you receive a text/call, wait for him to come online so you could chat, the joy when you get to sit next to her, hit a like for everything she updates on facebook. ( Blah..blah... u know it.) Nevertheless, adding a sense of destiny to the fact that you both met or trying to add a tinge of non-coincidence to the way you both met like asking rhetorical questions like " How did we end up meeting each other?" ........ But as we live down the lane, we begin to realize that it really doesn't  matter at the instant how you met or how you ended up together (if it works out); some may even call it fate. But it's how much you invested sublimely in the other person's soul, for everyone ends up in that hard moments of nonchalance. Physical bareness is not the only sign of the closeness of the relationship but stripping of the soul. To bare oneself to the soul is to strip but not tease each other’s' fears, weakness, insecurity and stress but nod with acceptance in the heart for everyone come with a set of stupidity. Therefore if you hadn't placed priority on a person's worth, then the hard times could be a drudgery for the relationship itself seem to breed the dirge along with the person. A person i guess has more value discreetly than what you place on her/him in the realms of the relationship.A person's worth goes beyond the relationship!

Well it's one of the other vague thinking i decided to write and got myself a person to edit it; she really found it hard to understand whatever i was trying to say with my writing that looks so incoherent and thank heavens she didn't bail out :)....Well!time to go pen down another article!